Every Woman Should Have:

* One old love she can imagine going back to

* And one who reminds her how far she has come

* Enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own even if she never wants to and needs to

* Something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour

* A youth she's content to leave behind

* A past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age

* A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra

* One friend who always makes her laugh...and one who lets her cry

* A good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family

* Eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored

* A feeling of control over her destiny

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